Monday, January 30, 2023

Monday Menus #5

My mother might be appalled if she saw this vintage enamel pot by my front door with pinecones in it.  She has it in her head that all of her enamelware must pass to me, so she's been giving it to me, bit by bit.  And I'm sure she didn't mean for me to place it by my front door, and yet here it sits.** 
Its so cute, and I do love pinecones!

Monday - Roast Chicken Thighs, El Dorado Rice (rice, green chilies, corn, cilantro, green onion) {taking my car to get repairs done}
Tuesday - Taco Salad {Happy Heavenly Birthday to Mark*, put a crockpot of pintos on overnight}
Wednesday - (freezer) Spaghetti, sauteed spinach {portion and freeze the pintos}
Thursday - Tilapia, Frijoles Charritos, (pintos, bacon, jalapenos, onion, tomato),  maybe some skillet potatoes 
Friday - Crockpot Mini Roast, mashed potatoes for one, green beans
Saturday - Kitchen closed! Visit my mother.
Sunday - Dinner with The Girl? If so, I'll make One Pot Chicken Alfredo with broccoli and some garlic toast


Gina

*How did I make it to the end of January 2023?  Had you asked me, in 2021, what life would look like now, I'm not even sure I could have pictured it.
**Here is what is in that pot now...

Friday, January 27, 2023

5 thing Friday - Leopard Moth, hard day, tacos, calendar, curtains

One day this week, as I was waiting for the elevator on the top floor of the parking garage, I saw this very pretty moth, just chillin' on the sidewalk.  He/she was in a high traffic area and yet still alive when I left 8 1/2 hours later.
Leopard Moth (Zeuzera pyrina)
I have actually never seen one, so I had to take his/her photo!
Kind of amazing that a bird didn't eat him/her all day up here.  
 
Thursday (yesterday) was not a stellar day.  It started out at 7:15 with a mammogram, then traffic, then delish breakfast tacos at this place with its pretty stained glass windows and poopy bird floor, then more traffic, then a rough day at work that also featured continued stomach pain* and a mild bout of vertigo, more traffic, dinner at home, then early to bed because omg I was so DONE.
A pretty handmade calendar arrived in the mail from my sister!  Since we are almost done with January, I made sure to note three very important days, in order: my MIL Marie, Spencer (aka Firstborn), and Mark.  The passage of time in general is not lost on me.
I made those curtains for the kitchen window and they don't photograph well, but I love them.  They are nothing more than burlap panels hanging from cafe clips on a heavy duty tension rod.
Burlap is very easy to sew, and since I had a coupon from Joann, I spent $10 on both panels so I would count that as a frugal win for a little shade and perhaps some privacy in my kitchen.
Happy Last weekend of January!


Gina

*For whatever reason, gastritis struck this week.  If God is trying to tell me something, I still haven't figured out what it is.

Monday, January 23, 2023

Monday Menus #4

I did finally finish that Amour cross stitch I was working on.  Since it was my first one, I placed it in a hoop, backed with a scrap of floral fabric and hung it in my closet.  I think future ones I stitch will be on smaller count colored aida to make them more interesting. 
But I have quite the sweet collage wall going in my closet and it makes me smile!

Monday - Spanish Chicken and Rice with olives, collards
Tuesday - Taco Soup for one in my mini crockpot (1/2 lb ground turkey)
Wednesday - Salmon Patty, green beans, cheesy pasta
Thursday - Comfort Chicken* in my mini crockpot, butter rice, rest of collards {mammo at 745 a.m.}
Friday - Stuffed Yellow Bell Pepper (1/2 lb ground turkey), green beans
Saturday - Enchiladas Con Carne for one, salad with romaine, Roma tomato, green onion, olives {lunch with Bubbie}
Sunday - TBD {not sure if The Girl and I are back to our weekly Sunday meals yet}


Gina

*Comfort Chicken (the single version)  2 boneless chicken breasts, 1 can cream of chicken soup, pinch dried thyme, 1/4 c stock, 1/4  onion chopped, couple carrots peeled and sliced, cook on low in the crockpot while I'm at work!

Friday, January 20, 2023

5 thing Friday - hearts, timber, hamcakes, shelf liners, Scout

A friend of mine asked if I were still making hearts for IFAQH and I realized its been a while since I stitched some up.
So I did and now I need to find new places to leave them!
Another friend is coming over on Saturday to haul away these landscape timbers to make a new raised bed garden.  These have been in my garage for years.  They were a playscape, and after he disassembled it,  Mark couldn't bear to part with them.  Well, I'm parting with them! I hope my friend has a very successful garden with some timber that has good vibes and memories.
When you add bits of chopped spiral sliced ham to your pancakes you get "hamcakes"!  They were delish, but I will likely not do a spiral sliced ham for Christmas next year and I don't think I will ever buy this flavor ham again - Pecan Praline.  Not great.
I saw some neat shelf liners for your fridge on Amazon and thought "I bet I could find a cheaper alternative at Dollar Tree" and of course, I did!
These place mats are easy to wipe clean and they protect the glass from getting further scratched.  Plus, they add pretty!
I also bought two dish mats in aqua that I trimmed down to fit perfectly in the drawers.  {yes, my fridge contents look fairly sparse, today is groceries day}
100% stole this pic from Scout's Insta.  I wish for he and Dutch to have a great year - that's really all I want for all of my kids.  That they be happy, well-adjusted adults who make their way in this world. 
What mother doesn't want that?


Gina

Monday, January 16, 2023

Monday Menus #3

When Firstborn was young he did things that make perfect sense to me in light of what he does for a living now.  His Nana bought him a set of Hot Wheels and he played with them all the time.  When he was almost 3 he told me in a clear calm voice that he had once been a race car driver who crashed his car*.  And in elementary school, he collected pictures of cars he loved and made a mini booklet of them called "Real Cool Cars!" (which I still have, somewhere)
Yep. Destined to be an auto mechanic.

Monday - Roast Chicken Thighs, broccoli, salad with avocado
Tuesday - (freezer) New Year's plate
Wednesday - Tilapia, small potato, green beans {Firstborn's birthday!}
Thursday - (mini) Crockpot Beef Stew {last evening of call}
Friday - (freezer) Butter Chicken with rice, peas and carrots 
Saturday - Out!
Sunday - One Pot Spaghetti, Caesar Salad {maybe Firstborn and The Girl will come}

From a sweet little babe who loved Hot Wheels to a hard-working man. 
Proud of you, Son!


Gina

*At the time, it weirded me out that he said this. He was so matter-of-fact about it.  Mark and I could never work out where he might have come up with this story.

Friday, January 13, 2023

5 thing Friday - windows, thrifting, cross stitch, groceries, Firstborn

 Much as I love this kitchen bay window, I probably should put up some sort of window covering since the house next door has finally sold.  
Blinds are exorbitant for the type and size I want, and I need something that won't damage the wall.
I'm thinking I will use a heavy duty extension rod and gauzy fabric with curtain clips.  Even burlap would do.  I don't want to lose the light in here, just gain a little privacy.
It feels like I haven't been to a thrift store in forever.  I made a run to Goodwill to donate some stuff from that hall closet and picked up a cute summer top, a pullover dress to wear with leggings, 2 novels, and a basket for washcloths in my linen closet - $20 bucks.  Not really cheap - I need to exercise my thrift store shopping muscle a bit.
A friend of mine posted this pic on her Instagram and I was smitten.  I sketched out the heart with all of its symbols, sans the writing, and it is my current project.
I may make several of them for gifts, in different colors.
I am on track with my grocery budget.  Its actually not impossible, I just have to be creative and plan, plan, plan.  Not just what's for dinner, but lunch and breakfast, too.  And I have to say, I eat fairly well.
Firstborn has a birthday next Wednesday.  You would never know to look at him, but he was a small baby and always in the 50th percentile or less on the growth charts.  The pediatrician was always concerned about his small size, but to me he looked perfect and he was such a happy baby!  I'm glad I didn't worry about it too much - but for sure I will tell my own kids when they become parents someday:  trust yourself and your own instincts.  If your child is pooping, they are eating.  If they are playing and sleeping and laughing, they are likely healthy.  And if they kiss you and tell you, I love you, Mom, (especially when they are adult)  you did all the right things. 
Happy Friday the 13th!


Gina

Wednesday, January 11, 2023

Little project: hall closet

 Behind this door lurked a closet stuffed full of vintage camera equipment, slides and reels, cleaning items, coats, board games none of us had played in years, and the world's biggest dust bunnies!  So, there's no "befores" to show you, because in a fit of inspiration I gave it a clean sweep on NY day.
You're just gonna have to believe me that every time I opened this closet, I felt a little angry.  It seems like we got to live in this house for about a year, with space to grow, then my MIL passed and we inherited 50% of the things in her house.
Mark wouldn't part with any of it.
I finally decided I had enough.  His old coats went to live in Bubbie's closet.  I hauled the camera crap out to the garage where it now has a dedicated space.  Everything else went into the Goodwill pile. Then I made space for some other random items (Swiffer refills and haircut supplies), decided which games to keep (not very many), and called it good enough.
  And now this closet is about a third emptier, and I don't promise I won't get rid of more of it in the future.
What's under the shelves? Two carrying cases full of old LP's ca. 70's and 80's.
And look! a crap ton of them above, too.
On the other side hangs my coats, the leaves to the dining and kitchen tables, a carpet cleaning machine, and the vacuum.  Its always amazed me how small this closet is, considering this is a 4 bedroom house*.  On to the next project...

  
Gina

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Should I save things for my peeps?  Here is what I have decided about that:  this house needs to work for me, as a home, not as a storage facility.  In fact, I have asked them several times to come over and look through the items I am purging, to see if they want any of it.  They decline.  So in my view, all of the things left here are my responsibility to keep or toss as I see fit.  I can either store them for a "someday" when there is no guarantee someone will want them, or I make space in here for me to live.
I choose space to live.

Monday, January 9, 2023

Monday Menus #2

I made my regular New Year's meal because I thought everyone was coming over to have lunch with me.  A couple of them even asked me if I were making ham balls...so I made a big batch.
Then no one showed.
So this tradition ended last year, I guess, and somehow I missed the memo.  But now I have a lot of delicious leftovers to freeze.  And in 2024, I will plan to do something completely different on New Year's Day!

Monday - Tilapia, kale, garlic mashed potatoes
Tuesday - Grilled Chicken Breast over buttery pasta, brussels sprouts
Wednesday - Patty Melt with onion and tomato, fries
Thursday - Coconut Shrimp, rest of the mashed potatoes, broccoli
Friday - Out {payday, on call until next Thursday}
Saturday - Cheesy Beef Enchiladas, corn
Sunday - Cranberry Gorgonzola Salmon Patty, rest of the brussels sprouts, rice


Gina

Friday, January 6, 2023

5 thing Friday - sparkling wine, flashbacks, sales, disaster, New Year's Day

Long story: Mark handed this bottle of champagne to my brother at our wedding and told him to "hold on to it".  Then he forgot all about it, as I guess so did my brother, until last year when he had my sister bring it to my mother's house .  It's been in her fridge for weeks. 
 
On a recent visit to her I opened it.  There was zero fizz and it had turned brown, but before I could stop her, my mother grabbed the bottle from me and took a swig of it!
She missed the wedding, so she finally got to toast me with my sparkling wedding wine, 37 years later.  And the rest of it got poured around her yard.
Ambulance lights bouncing off the house next door and lighting up my front windows gives me that flashback feeling of doom.  And in this case, it was my next door neighbor who has cognitive decline and was so weak from covid that her husband could not get her into the car. Oy.
Upside: I met another neighbor who is very nice and he expressed his condolences to me.
HEB apparently thought everyone in Austin, Texas was going to make a gingerbread house this year, so they had a bunch of different types of them on clearance and I bought one for The Girl for next year.  That and a roll of wired ribbon constituted the extent of my after Christmas sales shopping.
Another freeze, and this time the pipe broke below the cutoff valve so...
The top of my hill was a flooded mess.  The only thing I knew to do was call The Girl for advice, shut off the main water, and turn off all the breakers in the pumphouse.  {in hindsight, I could have skipped step one above}  There's no sense in me berating myself for not fixing the pipe once and for all, then wrapping it securely in insulation.  It didn't happen.  Now I have a new project out there.
To work off extra energy I gathered up a load of things to take home: all of the remaining firewood, the windchimes, the sink table from back here, the 5 gal bucket, most of the extension cords, and misc. crap.  I will continue carting off my old life at Highlands one pick-up load at a time, I guess.
{I emptied the bulletin board - clean slate}
On NY day I got up at my regular time and starting my yearly cleaning, organizing, and purging.
The Christmas tree went back to to the garage, and I decided to put the fiddle leaf fig in the front room and remove the side table that Mark wanted to use for his morning coffee cup.  Everything got dusted, vacuumed, or wiped down. 
I made the best skillet of sauteed cabbage I ever have, and enjoyed my Swedish ham balls, black eyed peas, and some wine as I sat out on my patio.  Then I read for a while and went to bed by 9:30.  An altogether pleasant start to the year.  And whether good things or bad things happen this year, I am going to do a better job of dealing with life.
My peeps are ready to move forward - and so am I.


Gina 

Monday, January 2, 2023

Monday Menus #1

 
Does anyone else love that the holidays are over?  It means I get to store Christmas decor, deep clean my house, organize my kitchen, get back on a budget, and plan for a new year.
I like it.

Monday - Chicken Alfredo Pasta (leftover rotisserie chicken and a Knorr pasta packet, so fancy!), broccoli {pay Bubbie's Spring tuition}
Tuesday - Lazy Daisy Meatballs, rice, kale
WednesdayLeftovers from New Year's Day (freeze the rest)
ThursdayPulled Pork (the last from day after Thanksgiving) over a baked potato with cheese and sour cream
Friday - Navy Bean Soup (freezer), garlic toast 
Saturday - I'm going to grill something, weather permitting!
Sunday - Dinner with The Girl?
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I spent New Year's Day alone for the first time in 40 years and it felt strange, but not lonely.  A little blue, but hopeful, too - I'm not sad 2022 is over, though.  It was a hard year.  And I spent a part of my day reflecting and thinking about what Gina wants, and how to get there.
Wish me luck.

Gina