Monday, October 12, 2026

What the week holds and a lucky find

Speaking of earrings...
One day recently I noticed that I was missing one of my gold hoops when I got home from work.  It was lost somewhere between the hospital and the bathroom sink.  Drat.  They were a pair gifted to me by Mark and the kids years and years ago. A full week later, I just happened to be standing on the wall side of the XR table and looked down when my foot nudged something.  The room is fairly low light but there was the missing earring!  I'm going to call them my good luck earrings from now on. They have tremendous sentimental value.  
This week:
No way am I working as hard as I did last week.  I wore myself out, what with a flu shot, mowing and edging the lawns, fixing the front door, moving heavy potted plants, grocery shopping, and other various chores.  Time for an easy week of   
*dermatology appointment
*therapy check-in
*payday
*catch up on reading
*maybe buy myself some jeans at Kohl's
What does your week look like?


Gina 

Friday, October 9, 2026

Big project: weather stripping and painting the front door

 Last week, my handyman came and helped me make sure the front door would close properly*, but it was far from where it needed to be.  For one thing, the weatherstripping was toast, but also the door needed a coat of paint inside and out.  It was time for a glow up.
I wish I had watched a couple of YouTube videos beforehand, but noooo.  Took me awhile to figure out how to remove the old crumbled weatherstripping. This was crucial to getting a good seal on the door - why had I not done this sooner?
I also scuff sanded and wiped everything down so I could give it a lick of paint.  The hyper-sanded areas are from the door rubbing MONTHS AGO.
After I pulled the weatherstripping down I cut a small chunk of it to take to Lowe's.
I also removed the brass kickplate, which I had hated since I spray painted it years ago.  A little wood filler took care of holes and dings.
And then I painted the white trim.  It might need a second coat in the future, but for now? Done.
The door got another coat of Modern Masters front door paint in this chocolate brown color called Sincere. While I was at it, I rolled a coat of brown paint on the scuffed up door mat.
Then I took a break for lunch!
"Welcome. Today's special is a delightful salad with mixed greens and cabbage, tossed with creamy cilantro ranch, toasted pepitas and tortilla strips, cooked chicken, and avocado chunks.  You will be your own server. Tip well."
I was stalling for time as I had no idea how I was going to shove the weather stripping into the groove along the door (called a kerf).  But guess what? I figured it out.  It didn't even take whiskers.
and because I wanted to be "extra" I painted the inside edges of the door a beautiful green color, leftover from my backdoor project.  I called this a stopping point for the day.
Then I hung a new swag from Hob Lob. Forty percent off, so I added three white sunflowers and a burlap bow.
Yep, it all looks "sincere". 
I scrubbed the aluminum threshold plate, too.  I like the door so much better without the dumb kick plate.  And that mat looks almost new!  After I paint the inside of the door (white) I will clean the brass doorknobs, add a sweep to the outside edge, give the Toasted Almond trim a lick of paint, and add new window cling to the side window, transom, and dining window.  {One project at a time, Gina}
I had a mess to attend to on my dining table - that will get dealt with today.
Then I took myself to Jack Allen's for my belated anniversary martini.
I would like to think that Mark would be proud of me for all of these projects, but I am definitely proud of myself!


Gina

*involving a shim on one of the hinge plates

Monday, October 5, 2026

Forty One

 Its hard not to feel a little down about today.  Yes, I know that life is still beautiful and I am very blessed.  But that doesn't mean that I don't wish my person was here with me, celebrating our 41st anniversary.
I would say to him "can you even believe it?"
And he would drawl "Yep" (saying it slow and deep)

I guess I'll never truly understand how we got from there to here.  These smiling faces belie the bad times along with the good times, the struggle with the success.  It was worth it. Happy Anniversary to us,


Gina

Friday, October 2, 2026

5 thing Friday - roof, earring, photo binder, puzzle, thrifting

One day I drove up to my house and saw what looks to be a couple of loose shingles just sitting on the roof.  This does not make me happy.
Its like I told the electrician "it's always going to be something".  This roof is not old enough to be replaced just yet, so I will need to have someone get up there and investigate. These are the kinds of things that make aging in place so challenging.  Even with a strong support system or a healthy bank account it can can feel like a never-ending struggle.
I splurged on a small channel set diamond in 14kt with a flat back for this top ear piercing, only on this one ear. A treat for myself, if you will. I cannot leave the house without earrings on, no matter what I am doing.  A very weird thing leftover from childhood, I think.
I bought one gigantic 3 ring binder for three small photo albums I wanted to combine.  These are photos from high school, college, and early married life.*  I don't know why I assumed that only one would be sufficient.
I either have to go through them like I did the family albums and purge photos (I really should) or buy another 3 ring binder (I probably will).  It would be nice for all of these photos to have their new permanent home all set up so I might actually look at them.  No telling what my kids will think of them some day.  They will probably think "wait - our parents were actually people?".  Ha.
 
My latest puzzle.  I got the sewing table all cleared off because I thought The Girl was going to be here for a couple of nights while she had maintenance fix a mold issue in her vents. She ended up elsewhere, but since this workspace was cleared off I might as well spread out a new puzzle to work.  Its been ages.  Butterflies seem to keep showing up in my life.
I went thrifting exactly once for all of September.  I found a nice new chenille sweater for $7 and a glass snowflake for $3.  I guess I'm going to stick with that theme for my bedroom tree.  I'm really looking forward to having it in there all lit up at night - so pretty.
In less than 2 months the Christmas craze will be upon us, can you believe it?


Gina 

*41 years on Monday

Monday, September 28, 2026

What the weeks holds and bye, bye broken fans

 I finished out last week by finally getting two ceiling fans down.  In their place are two simple light fixtures that require only 1 light bulb each. Praise. These fans worked well for 18 years so I would say we got our $100 worth out of each one.
And while I was at it, I swapped tables out in my sewing room, because this wooden one is just too big!

This week:
*today is the 3rd anniversary of losing Mom
*MUST arrange someone to come look at rebalancing or replacing my front door, because I think the wood is warped
*selling some estate jewelry
*on call one of the days
*getting a new laptop - I think mine is trying to die
*continuing on with some smallish home projects
*finishing this book 

Hmmm...kind of sounds like a lot, but I am spreading it out over several days!  What does your week look like?


Gina

Friday, September 25, 2026

5 thing Friday - boob lights, paint, chickpeas, front door, Gina

I don't know that there is necessarily a season for home projects - I feel I've been at it for the entire year. Or, five.
The electrician that installed my garage light will be coming today to remove the non-functioning ceiling fans in two of the bedrooms and install with these very simple light fixtures.  Are they fancy? No, just functional.  He laughed when I said I wanted boob lights.
These 5 gallon containers with a bit of leftover paint in them take up a lot of space in the garage.  So I bought some 2 qt. lidded containers at Home Depot and transferred enough to handle touch-ups. There wasn't much left and I will take them to the City of Austin recycle center. Along with those fans.
I reinforced the seal on the containers with a little cling wrap and tape, then labeled them and placed with my other touch up containers in the hall closet where they won't bake to death.
Another benefit of having actual storage space I can use.
Trader Joe's has these canned cumin and parsley chickpeas in olive oil that are delicious served cold on a salad!  I'm not normally a fan of chick peas, but this was very good.  I spent a little extra money on groceries this week to fill in some empty spaces in my freezer and fridge and eat healthier.
Its hard to see in this photo, but there is a gap in the front door and the weatherstripping needs to be replaced.  I don't know why I have been putting this off...probably I just don't want to do it.  But the cavalry is not going to arrive any time soon, so its on the list of things to address today. I also want to repaint the door and clean the whole area up.
I would also like to re-do the cling film on the transom, the skinny window,
and the dining room window.  Once upon a time, it was all this floral cling, but it has faded quite a bit (over at least 15 years) and I want something a bit different up there now.  The hardest part of this project was matching the seams, which sort of shrunk over time, leaving a tiny gap of light.  Its time for this to go.
If I'm being honest, I'm ready for a lot of things to go.  But they have to resolved in the right way, you know?  Everything takes time.


Gina

Monday, September 21, 2026

The butterfly

 My butterfly is still healing (even after two weeks), and its devilishly hard to take my own photo of her:
I never realized how freckle-y my arms are!

She was a whole adventure.  
I scheduled the consult. Cancelled the consult. Rescheduled the consult. Made an appointment for the tattoo itself. Sent photos to the artist who did not receive them. Went to the appointment anyway. We consulted again, then I got tattooed for two hours. Developed skin irritation all around the Tegaderm. Ran a fever - developed tattoo flu. Spent a lot of time on my couch. Had a mild(ish) anxiety attack. Kept her protected with Aquafor.  Went to work as usual at the end of the week. Oof. I think I am done with this experience now and I do love her, but I was not prepared for that roller coaster.
Sometimes I go into these "projects" with a little too much confidence, but I expect the best anyway!  


Gina 

P.S. Its Ok if everyone does or does not agree with getting a tattoo.  I wasn't going to take a poll.  But unkind comments about it, or anything really, will not be published here.  (: