This year I did several things differently than in the past: I decorated the tree, with Scout's help, on Thanksgiving afternoon. Had 99% of my shopping done that weekend. Set a much lower budget and stayed well within it. Planned a simpler meal with a defined invite time. Made plans for myself. Didn't send Christmas cards out.
Christmas looks so different this year - uncluttered of expectation and obligation.
Yesterday I decided to go ahead and put presents under the tree. It looks far emptier than last year but I think it is reasonable and fitting for where we're all at in our lives. The large tote bags each hold a beautiful sweater for each of them.
The books I collected for each person got a burlap ribbon and homemade bookmark tied on, then got hidden behind the tree. Each stack includes a sentimental book for Christmas and a calendar for the year, along with books I thought each person would like.
The fudge, though simple, turned out very well, and each person got two full quart size ziplocs of two different flavors. The stockings got filled (one for me, too!) and are ready to place under the tree. Christmas lunch is a two hour affair for anyone who wants to come. We will sing Happy Birthday to Bubbie and have cake for dessert. And I am hopeful its at least cool enough for a firepit with a glass of wine that afternoon.
The weekend will zoom by fast. Just as the years have.
I'm not sad that December 2023 is almost over, and I am looking forward to next year and am hopeful it will bring happiness and peace to my family. And yours!
Merry Christmas,
Gina