I would like to keep blogging. I'll just take it nice and slow.
Fawns captured by the wildlife camera at Highlands. Aren't they sweet?
I know deer are a nuisance in suburban areas, but out here, watching them is quite relaxing.
After The Girl finishes up her giant yarn blanket, she's going to help me make mine. Here she has a mass of it spread out over my bed. She has already pulled out chains twice since it was gigantic. I just want one that will cover my lap while I read. She also had her embroidery spread out on the chair next to me - I don't mind a bit. She's been keeping busy with work and crafts.
The RV guy came to pick up Darby last week so that I can sell her on consignment. That was a blessing as I had never even driven her out of the driveway. I took pictures of the inside - it was gut wrenching. I probably should have done that the day I cleaned her out. Happy trails, Darby.
This is the greenbelt in our subdivision. The Girl and I have walked up there a few times, but my knee is acting up this week, so I didn't want to push it. Its been very hot out and you have to go early.
A great place to take Teddy for walks and smells.
We all met up at Highlands the Sunday after Hubby passed. Firstborn and Bubbie practiced their ax throwing skills. It was hot as blue blazes, but we also sat and talked and tried to process what we had seen on Friday. Hopefully we will meet up again this Sunday to talk about planning a memorial.
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That's all I have for now - random bits of life. I imagine it will be that way for a while. If you are reading this, thank you.
Gina
25 comments:
Gina, I headed over from the Frugal Girl. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm find I'm still struggling after my mother's death in 2019. I mean, I'm not having that tightness in my chest feeling that makes me wonder if I can take another breath, at least not multiple times a day. I did at first. Now it hits me out of nowhere, but not daily or even weekly. Hang in there. You have my prayers, and God is faithful and comforting.
If you're like me, the hardest part is defining who I am now that this major part of me is no longer here.
Hi Gina, Fellow FG reader here popping over to say my heart is aching for you during this time. Picking up the pieces and moving forward is so hard. I lost my dad unexpectedly this past year (covid) and my mom has been walking the strange & difficult road you describe so vividly. One day at a time. You will be in my thoughts. 💔 PD
I wish you and your family gentle passage through this incredibly difficult time.
Hi Gina... Another FG reader here. I'm so sorry for your loss and am praying for you now. Much love.
Gina, I'm coming over here as part of your FG family too - I'm so sorry for your sudden and devastating loss. I'm praying for you and your family. - Suz
I've read your blog off and on and was shocked to read on FG that you lost your husband suddenly. Please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family.
I can't even imagine what you're going through but I will put in a plug for grief counseling. I've known folks who used it and it seems like a helpful option. It sounds like you're worried about your kids but be sure to give yourself some grace too! Take care.
HI Gina, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May your husband's memory be a blessing.
Sending you love and light.
I’m so sorry, Gina. Prayers and comfort to your family.
Coming over from The Frugal Girl to offer my deepest sympathies for your loss. May you be blesses with peace and sweet memories at this difficult time.
Gina, what?!? I haven’t been posting or reading regularly so I missed your earlier post. I am so, so sorry my friend. My heart is just broken for you and the family. I’m sending you prayers and big hugs and lots of love. ❤️❤️❤️
I've been checking in, and I'm happy to know you will continue to blog. I can't imagine how different your life looks and feels right now, and I'm still praying for you, for comfort as you grieve and for strength as you prepare to walk through a life so different.
Gina, I am a fellow Frugal Girl reader and am so sorry to learn of the death of your husband. I'll be holding you and your family close to my heart in this fragile time.
Hi Gina,
Another Frugal Girl reader here. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you have family support during this difficult time.
Popping over from Frugal Girl to say I’m so sorry for your loss. Xx
So so sorry…..
Also here from FG. So sorry for your loss. Be gentle with yourself in the days ahead.
May you feel strength, comfort & peace from the Father of all things & His Son, Jesus. What a tremendous loss, give yourself time to mourn.
HI Gina, I started reading your blog when I was working on meal planning. And, then I just liked hearing about your parenting older kids--which is a phase I am moving into. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Even though we don't know each other, I wanted you to know I was thinking of you.
Also just read it at FG. I’m really sorry for your loss.
Gina, I have read your posts for a few years, but don't think I have ever commented. I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you, with the help of your dear family, are finding your way one day at a time. Allow yourself grace for the grieving process. I hope as you take each new step in your journey, you find your way to peace. chris
Gina, I'm not even sure how I ended up on your blog, I don't even read blogs. So it must be for a reason. I just lost my dearest, best friend to Covid. We had been friends for 45 years. The loss was unbearable. I felt I needed help with the grief I felt, so I found a book, "I Can't Stop Crying", by Frank D. Ferris and John D. Martin. This book helped me immensely. Everyone grieves differently, and this book was written with compassion and understanding, and touches on different perspectives of real people. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. This is a journey for sure, and you will heal from your loss in time, in YOUR time. Take care!
Pam
My heart goes out to you! Three years ago I suddenly became a widow at 59. It’s not easy, but I am managing pretty well, and I hope that gives you a little extra strength and grace when you need it most.
Sending you love, positive thoughts and a big hug. I came to your blog from FG. May you take comfort in knowing you have your wonderful family with all those special memories to share at this moment in time.
Please do keep blogging. I know that your life is in chaos right now, but blogging is something comforting and familiar. Continue on. I think you need that stabilizing factor in your life.
I’m so excited about that giant yarn blanket. I love those, and have long wanted to make one. Do take photos and share the progress of yours when it’s being made. That is just the perfect thing for snuggling up with during the fall and winter. After this week of intense heat, I am ready for fall.
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