There are a couple of people who like to text me around holidays and other special occasions with something along the lines of 'I hope you are doing as best you can and I know this is tough for you and the day is full of mixed emotions for you and your kids (?) and a time to honor loving bonds but you can't do that because your husband died and after all, its a family day'*
I'm paraphrasing here...
Since I think its $hitty to send someone such tone deaf messages, I think I will start sending this poop emoji as a response. Because those people are poopers. Just gonna lay this riiight here....
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Anyhoodle.
Mother's Day was just fine. I got called in to work, which I basically knew would happen. But just as I hung up the phone, The Girl appeared bearing gifts! Tacos from Rudy's, a pistachio latte from Starbuck's, a cross stitch bookmark kit, a cute cat planter with a cactus, and some very very cute cacti that she knitted:
She is so crafty! My sweet girlie (: I felt loved.
I had a really nice day, overall. Made some Oatmeal Bombs for my weekday breakfasts:
Caught up on some chores. Took a nap. Did a little cross stitch. Drank some wine with my dinner, which by the way, was delish:
Mole Pork Enchiladas and a salad with avocado and purple onion!
I even called my own Mother, who by the way is also a widow and she still likes being recognized on Mother's Day...and I had time to do a mani/pedi.
Leftover cake was also enjoyed!
This was from our Friday Happy Hour dinner. So good!
I even played with my Cricut a little bit - its been so long since I used it that I forgot how...oh well!
The boys are usually a little late with Mother's Day, and I chalk it up to A. Them being men, and B. Not having their significant other nag them, which I guess is good? Scout promised me a loaf of fresh banana bread and Firstborn did an oil change for me on Saturday. And Bubbie even sent me a text saying "thanks for everything you do!". All in all, a good weekend.
Family doing well. Life moving on.
Happy Belated Mother's Day!
Gina
*some clarification: My kids did not lose me, so celebrating me on Mother's Day causes them zero stress as I am not dead... Its not a family day, it's literally MOTHER's Day. And no Mark is not here, but I'm sure he would be OK with the kids honoring me.
What a very strange message to send to you. I can see a "thinking of you and your family" on Father's day but just...WOW! Sometimes when I get those unhelpful messages I just assume the person meant well and just didn't write it well! We can hope anyway!
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Cathy
The cacti are darling! Your daughter is very talented. Those would be the perfect Mother's Day gift for me since I'm not very good at watering. And I think your emoji choice sounds appropriate. It must be very frustrating to get those kinds of messages...
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