Friday, October 30, 2026

Spooky post for a spooky week...

 Goodness, this week.
I'm going to dive right in.  On Monday, my sister called me at work right as I stepped away from my desk.  I got about halfway through her voicemail and had to step away again.  Our brother had been "found down" after maybe a couple of days - we don't really know an exact time of death.
He was 62.  
Kurt

My brother and I were not close, to say the least.  There were no big fireworks, just a disconnect that expanded as the years went by.  Even so, it hit me hard.  And maybe in part because of how hard it hit my sister.  Our little group is down to two now. Notifying our half-siblings was not fun.

Kurt

I told her I would help spread the word to extended family, and lo and behold, discovered that my youngest half-brother, Marlin,  had died in his sleep on Tuesday. The day after Kurt was found. He was 53.

Marlin

That's a very unsettling coincidence. What are the odds that you would lose two brothers to natural causes, states apart, within a day or two of each other? And since he was the true baby of all of my siblings, full and otherwise, it felt weird.  None of us are really close, but still...

Marlin

This week has kind of thrown me for a loop!
However, other things did happen:
*I shopped for groceries, cooked at home, cleaned my carpets and did some chores and putseying
*I had lunch with Scout, who is turning 31 on Halloween
*I paid my car tags and ran some errands
*I started a collage project using my kids' school art

And life goes on, spooky or not. 


Gina

12 comments:

  1. Aw, Gina I am so sorry to read of your losses. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

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  2. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brothers. Losing family is hard whether or not one is especially close.

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  3. I'm so sorry for your loss, and the shocking nature. You've had so much to process.

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  4. Whoa! Unsettling to say the least. I am so sorry for both losses.

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  5. I'm so sorry, Gina, that is just an awful loss and an awful coincidence.

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  6. Oh Gina, I'm so sorry for your loss. It's such a weird coincidence that they died the same week and neither one was that old.
    As you say, life does go on. No doubt as you go about your routines both of those brothers will be on your mind. Rest in Peace Kurt and Marlin.

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  7. With sympathy and condolences to you and your extended family. I think it perfectly normal for there to be a range of emotions, memories, and wishes for what ifs at this time. Give yourself the patience and time to heal that you would give a friend who was dealing with this and leave yourself open to the possibilities for closer relationships where least expected (half-siblings, their kids, cousins?) that may arise.

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  8. Sorry for your loss! That has to be quite the shock.

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  9. I haven't been online in awhile and I stopped by to get your news only to read this. I too am saddened to know of your loss. I am glad to see you have Love here in the comments.

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  10. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  11. Oh, Gina, that is such a sad coincidence. Take care of, and be kind to, yourself.

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  12. Goodness...that is a lot. I'm just reading this and catching up on posts. But I'm sorry for the grief and hard days you have been having. Hugs to you -

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